Journal entry 050610: Weight of fear
/“The more afraid you are, the
heavier your pack will be,” said Dr. Warren Doyle, legendary
I remembered reading a similar
sentiment from Erin McKittrick, who wrote a book about trekking 4,000 miles
from
When I go up into the
I take an air mattress because I am afraid of the aches and pains I get from sleeping on the ground.
I take three gallons of water because I am afraid of running out. However, at eight pounds per gallon, I should consider taking less water. I should push myself on this and take some risk and try to lower the weight.
I take a headlamp, not because I am worried about being outside after dark, which I seldom am other than for waste disposal, but because I am afraid of not being able to read my book or write in my journal at night in my tent.
I take an emergency bivi bag on my solo day hikes because it makes Cyndi happy and in case I turn my knee or blow out my ankle and, being unable to hike out, have to wait alongside the trail until someone comes along, which could be days.
Some places where I have reduced weight by accepting risk are leaving changes of clothes at home, taking a smaller first aid kit, doing little or no cooking.
But of course the reason I heard the quote by Dr. Doyle so clearly was because his statement was bigger than backpacking. Fear adds weight to our life. Fear presses down on us and limits our movements and squashes our freedom. Fear makes us heavy on our feet, and unlikely to try new things. Jon Katz wrote in his blog, Bedlam Farm Journal, “Fear is a great depleter, and the more you feel it, the less you feel the wonder of life. Fear kills the adventure of life.”
Wow, I guess I should ask myself, why all these quotes about fear?
Where did this come from? What am I afraid of?
I can answer that. I am most afraid of looking silly. That fear shapes
more of my behaviors than I am willing to let people know about. I am sure it
has held me back from many adventures that God has put in front of me.
However, I don’t believe it is as heavy a load on me today as it was a
dozen years ago. Just as growing and maturing as a backpacker means
learning what to take and what to leave at home, growing as a Christian means trusting God and emptying my pack. It also
means living in community. One of the reasons my fears have declined a bit is
because I’ve learned I am not on a permanent solo backpacking trip where all my
survival gear comes from my own kit, but I am on an expedition and surrounded
by fellow travelers who share their strengths with me even as I help shoulder
some of their fears. Being on the trail together wards off fears.
1 John 4:18 says, “Well-formed love banishes fear.” (MSG) Knowing we don’t have to do this all by ourselves is way less scary, and much lighter.
“I run in the path of Your
commands, for You have set my heart free.” Psalm 119:32BU
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